Many of my friends told me that your life would change after Honey’s marriage. Even my school Principal asked me to get married before my brother’s marriage. But the thing was nobody knew anything about that boy who was going to hold my hand for the entire life. So it was all in waste and actually building castles in thin air and once I decide for anything, no one on this earth can change my decision, which is the quality of a real Taurean. I myself believe in astrology very much and I am a religious person who believes in the philosophy that whatever you sow will come back to you in any form. Oh ! I was telling you about Honey’s function.

I and mom reached our native place two to three days before marriage. The bride’s family was reaching two days before marriage. We had arranged our house during that week. Then we finished our shopping whatever was left of it. Honey and Chuttan arrived three days before the D- day. The arrangements for the accommodation of the bride’s family was done which was two to three km far from our house. Each one of our relatives reached on time. There were celebrations everywhere. The whole house was decorated with flowers and colorful lights on the D-day .It was so cold on mehndi night. We danced continuously for almost two hours on the dhol. Then there were dance on DJ and everyone had presented their show with full zest and zeal. Chuttan and Anu bhaiya were busy in looking after the arrangements on the bride’s side. We had a kept a cook for a week as nobody liked to come into the kitchen to do any experiment. Moreover everyone had a different taste. Some want spicy food, some want medium taste with less red chili added to the food.

Finally the day arrived. The sehrabandi was held at five in the evening. Ghud chadi started at almost 6pm and everyone was rushing to get ready to make their appearance more beautiful and charming. Then as Honey was about to put the sehra, the part of jija had to be played by Gudiya’s husband as I was still unmarried. On that day I realized the void in my life. When Honey put the sehra on his head his eyes were full of tears and red. He was crying because he was missing Daddy. Nobody can play the part of our daddy. Even we all started crying. Daddy was not there on this important occasion of his life.